Janinastylish - Life as transgender woman

  Going public places as transgender Introduction If you're transgender and have decided to go public, there are a few things to consider. Here are some of the most important things I've learned through my transition: Know when to stay home. Know your limits. Don't go out if you don't feel safe. Don't go out if you're not ready to be seen by others, especially strangers. Avoid going out if you're feeling anxious or depressed (or both). These emotions can make it difficult for us to make decisions about our health and safety, which could lead to an unsafe situation that might result in violence against the transgender person or another person nearby who's also transphobic—like a friend of yours at work who just saw what happened last night at your party and now wants revenge on someone else from their group who made fun of them when they were pretending like unicorns were real people too? That would be awkward! Get an ID in your chosen name and gender. Ge...

  Introduction When I was younger, I believed that my family would disown me if they knew that I was transgender. I didn’t feel like myself, so how could they see me? Even though no one ever said anything directly to me about being transgender, other people’s reactions to my appearance definitely shaped my own self-image. If someone made fun of how effeminate or masculine I looked (or both), it reinforced this belief that there was something wrong with me—and then it became harder for me to be comfortable with myself when others were around. Wear what you like. If you're a woman and you want to feel sexy, wear what makes you feel good. If it's something that makes someone else uncomfortable, then don't wear it. If there is a piece of clothing in your closet that makes one of your friends uncomfortable, leave it out! Don't waste time trying on clothes in front of other people when they don't like them (or even worse: being told how great their body looks). Don't ...

  Introduction It's a really big deal to come out as transgender. You're about to tell someone who you thought was your partner that you are in fact, not just attracted to them but also identify as female. It's a huge step and one that can be difficult for anyone faced with this kind of news. Fortunately, there are plenty of resources online that can help relieve some of the pressure and make coming out easier for both parties involved. Here are some tips for making sure this transition goes smoothly: Give yourself time to prepare. The first step to coming out is preparing yourself. There are a lot of things that can go wrong when you decide to share your gender identity with other people, so knowing what to expect and how best to prepare yourself will help ensure that everything goes smoothly. Think about what kind of support you want from your partner and their family. Do they already know? How did they react when they found out? What are their plans for supporting you af...

  Introduction Trans people transition because they feel like they need to. There's no denying that being transgender can be difficult, but there are ways to make the experience easier and more fun. One of the most important parts of trans identity is your gender expression, or how you present yourself as a woman or man. This includes everything from how much makeup you wear and what kind of clothes you wear (but not only those things). It can also include how feminine or masculine your voice sounds when talking with people (and whether or not it changes over time). Gender identity and gender expression Gender identity and gender expression are two different things. They’re not the same, but they do have overlapping characteristics. Gender identity refers to who you are inside as a person who identifies with your assigned sex at birth (gender assignment). It is your sense of self-identity in relation to others and how you relate socially and emotionally. This can include assigned m...

  Choosing underwear as transgender Introduction If you're transgender, your underwear is a very personal choice. It has to fit properly, look good and feel comfortable; but it also needs to be something that doesn't draw attention in the wrong way. I've heard many transgender people say they don't want to wear any underwear at all when they first transition because they feel like an object of ridicule - but this isn't necessarily true! The best thing about choosing your underwear as transgendered is that there are so many options out there now: thongs are no longer required (unless you want them), nor are briefs or boxers; there's even room for those who prefer no pants at all! Keep it comfy If you are wearing underwear that is uncomfortable, you will not be able to focus on the things you need to do. You will be distracted by your underwear, which is not a good thing since it means that your brain isn’t being used as efficiently as possible. It's important...

I know that many of you struggling with your make-up but I have one really good piece of advice for you go to youtube watch tutorials and practice a lot. I was not practicing at all because I was thinking that it can not be so hard and I don't need to practice. There are also free make-up courses online, I went through Alison.com / Diploma in makeup artistry.  In the online course, I learned the basic principles of makeup and then I started practicing.  My daily skincare routine My daily skincare routine is changing depends is it winter or summer. When i started to take good care of my skin i was feeling more feminine and this is something that i enjoy doing. Taking good care of your skin also helps you to create a good canvas for makeup.  In summer mornings and evenings: Washing my face with cleanser Spread toner Spread serum Spread moisturizer Spread eye cream In winter mornings and evenings:  Washing my face with cleanser Spread moisturizing toner in layers (3-5 l...

  I think i have really found the most important thing in my life myself. In past i was chasing material and money but now i realized that i was just running away for myself. I did not wan't face myself as transgender woman. Don't get wrong i still wan't to go forward in my career but now i am doing it for right reasons. Now i have started really enjoy my time off from work and not feel all the time stressed and depressed. I decided to be me, it was tough but reward for doing it is life chancing.  Yes there is and will be people who i am gone loose from my life being me but i don't care!  Yes somebody will keep me weird because of my way of living life!  Yes people will stare and some of them even judge me when i am at public places as transgender woman, i just don't care anymore! Key for just not to care for me was to understand why people are behaving like this. They are jealous for you being so brave that you do things differently, because they don't have the...

  Sorry that you have not heard anything about me for a while. I have been changing my whole life upside down. I have slowly started my social transition and get professional help to support finding my true self and my lost self confidence. What i have learned so far is that sometimes people have to just stop and think about their self. I stopped and realized one shocking thing, i was not living this life for myself. I was just doing things that society want's me to do, not the things i really want to do. Yes there is always people around you who will always say that you are not gone make it, or you gone fail no matter what you are doing.  These people was giving me a hard time to move forward as a proud transgender woman. I am still fighting with these thoughts but i just don't care anymore. I wan't to live my life just the way that feels good for me. If somebody does not accept me that person is not right for being part of my life.  Sounds really simple right? It's no...