My tips for going public places as transgender

 

Going public places as transgender

Introduction

If you're transgender and have decided to go public, there are a few things to consider. Here are some of the most important things I've learned through my transition:

Know when to stay home.

• Know your limits.

• Don't go out if you don't feel safe.

• Don't go out if you're not ready to be seen by others, especially strangers.

• Avoid going out if you're feeling anxious or depressed (or both). These emotions can make it difficult for us to make decisions about our health and safety, which could lead to an unsafe situation that might result in violence against the transgender person or another person nearby who's also transphobic—like a friend of yours at work who just saw what happened last night at your party and now wants revenge on someone else from their group who made fun of them when they were pretending like unicorns were real people too? That would be awkward!

Get an ID in your chosen name and gender.

• Get a new ID in your chosen name and gender.

• Get a new birth certificate. If you were born in the United States, you need to apply for this through the U.S Department of Health & Human Services (HHS). They will send it to your state’s Vital Records office where they will hand-deliver it to you or mail it directly to your location; don't worry if they don't! You can also get one online at https://www2a005e0f25ff7c8a4d35faa47be06ab_the_united_states_of_amurica/vetrecordsonline/index .

• Get a new social security card if necessary -- but note that this may not be required depending on where you live and work in North America (or elsewhere).

Think about the people you want to know before you come out publicly.

Think about the people you want to know before you come out publicly.

Think about when you will tell them, and how you will tell them.

Think about how they will react to your announcement, and what sort of support system they need in order for them to feel comfortable with how things are going.

Sometimes, the bathroom isn't worth it.

Sometimes, the bathroom isn't worth it.

Let's be honest: sometimes when you're in public, you just have to make a quick stop at the restroom. Maybe there's a long line at your favorite coffee shop and you need to get out of there so that everyone can enjoy their coffee in peace. Maybe it's late at night and all of the restaurants are closed except this one Italian joint down the street from your house—you don't want to walk all that way just for a slice of pizza! Whatever it is (or maybe nothing), having some privacy while going about your business will help alleviate some stress and anxiety during times like these.

It's important to remember that bathrooms aren't just places where people go when they feel uncomfortable; they're also spaces where transgender people live out their lives on an everyday basis without having access to proper accommodations or recognition—especially considering how many transgender people work jobs that require them being able to use public restrooms regularly (like waiters). So while using public bathrooms may seem like an easy fix for those who don't know better than anything else should be done during such situations...it often isn't because once again we find ourselves dealing with issues beyond simple discomfort

Create a safe space for yourself at home.

Creating a safe space at home is one of the most important things you can do. It's not just about being able to go out and feel comfortable, it's also about being able to return home and feel safe there.

If you're coming out as transgender in your own community, this may mean having a supportive family member or friend who will listen when you need them and give guidance on how best to explain yourself. Or maybe it means creating a private room in your house where you can go when strangers start asking questions or making comments that make you uncomfortable; even if they don't mean anything by them (and sometimes they might), it's still better than having someone hear what they're saying while they're talking.

Create your own support system.

You're not alone, and you don't have to do this alone. There are many ways to find support for your journey as a transgender person:

• Friends and family can be extremely helpful in providing moral support during times of trouble or confusion. It's important that you always feel like you can talk about what's going on with them without feeling judged or ridiculed by them.

• Online resources like Facebook groups, Instagram pages and blogs offer a safe space where people who are also living their lives openly can get together and share stories with each other. This means that there will be others out there who understand what it means to be transgender, which makes going through some tough moments easier because at least no matter where you go online there'll always be someone around ready to listen when needed most!

Make sure you have resources available if you do have a bad experience.

If you do have a bad experience, make sure you have resources available. You can get support from friends and family members who are willing to listen to your story or call the hotlines listed below:

• The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is 1-800-273-8255.

• The Trevor Project's hotline is 1-866-488-7386.

• GLAAD’s LGBTQ helpline is 1(888) 865-0012.

You don't owe anyone anything! Do what is best for you!

You don't owe anyone anything. You are the only person who can decide how you want to live your life, and no one else has any right to tell you what is best for you. If we all lived this way, there would be no need for transgender people at all!

It's important that everyone understands this concept: it's up to us as individuals whether or not we want to transition or not—it's our choice alone (as long as we're happy). But even if one person doesn't approve of something, they shouldn't try convincing another person into doing something that isn't right for them either. It just doesn't work like that in real life.

If someone tries telling me how I should dress myself then I'll say "no thanks" because WE ARE BEAUTIFUL AND WE DON'T NEED ANYONE ELSE'S OPINION ON HOW WE SHOULD LOOK!

Conclusion

If you’re considering coming out publicly, it’s important to be prepared. Remember that people will react differently to your transition. Some may be supportive and happy for you; others may need time to adjust and ask questions about how your gender identity impacts the way they treat you. If someone does hurt or abuse you because of who they think you are (or don't know), knowing where resources are available can help protect yourself from further harm or harassment. And remember: there is no such thing as "forcing" someone else's hand when it comes down to their own sense of self-worth!